You lead
There is no exam and no correct way to
start. "I don't know where to begin" is a perfectly good first sentence. Your
therapist will help you find the thread.
Sessions happen off-platform
Most sessions run
over the channel that works best for you: a call, a video link, or messaging. Lebona's
code of conduct applies to your therapist there exactly as it would in a clinic.
You can say things in your own language
Switch
between Amharic, Kiswahili, Kinyarwanda and English mid-sentence if that is how you
think. Your therapist will follow.
Silence is allowed
You are not being billed for
performance. Sitting quietly for a minute is often where the useful part starts.
You set the pace on hard things
Trauma work in
particular is never rushed. Nothing gets opened before you have somewhere safe to
put it down.
Ending is a decision, not a failure
Many people
need six to twelve sessions, not years. When you're ready to stop, you and your
therapist plan the ending together.